Category: LARP design

  • Sex and Death : To be Human and Larping

    Sex and Death : To be Human and Larping

    (Featured photo by Photo by Cyrus Crossan on Unsplash) Sex and death – the two things in life that are impossible to escape. Even if you are ace and you decide to never touch a human being sexually, I bet that informs a whole bunch of your human interactions – I know figuring it out…

  • Safety is Personal: Wearing Your Larp Seatbelt

    Safety is Personal: Wearing Your Larp Seatbelt

    (Featured photo by Stephen Andrews on Unsplash.) Every time you get in a car, you put on a seatbelt (at least, I really hope you do.) Not because you plan to get in an accident that day, or because you think you are with a bad driver, but because things happen. Even with all the…

  • Making Mistakes…

    Making Mistakes…

    (Featured photo by Bret Lehne of Velvet Noir I, workshops.) This was originally written as a private chat between game designers on my Patreon. However, after several requests, it felt important to put it public. This post is more personal than many on this blog, but no less true. Most of you who read this…

  • A Template for Role-Play Negotiations…

    A Template for Role-Play Negotiations…

    (Photo by Bret Lehne. Models: Nerissa Hart and Lex Pulice-Farrow.) I speak a lot in this blog about consent negotiations and how to handle narrative free form safely. However, negotiations in larp aren’t just a part of the more free form/emergent styles. Even in your hardest boffer game, relationships and situations come up where it’s…

  • We Can Tell Dangerous Stories Safely

    We Can Tell Dangerous Stories Safely

    (Trigger Warning: This blog discusses topics of racism, hate crimes, and sexual violence under a separate cut warning at the end. Do not read if any of that content is triggering for your mental state.) (Featured photo by Bret Lehne of Velvet Noir II. Models: Dann Lynch, Jason Brunett, and Victoria Lai.) Safe spaces don’t exist…

  • Safety Mechanics: an Essential Larp Tool in Action

    Safety Mechanics: an Essential Larp Tool in Action

    Safety mechanics allow a larp to play with more dangerous, risky themes while knowing the players are emotionally self caring, but what are the best ways to put them in your system? Read here to find out more…