Category: LARP Safety

  • Romancing the Roleplayer: Communication is Key

    Romancing the Roleplayer: Communication is Key

    (Featured Photo by zelle duda on Unsplash.) Romance roleplay is one of the most prevalent kinds of plotline I see across all larping genres. Love it or hate it, chances are you’ve had to interact with it in some form — both in and out of character. Many of us absolutely love the highs of emotion…

  • We Collectively Suck at Setting Boundaries in Larp

    We Collectively Suck at Setting Boundaries in Larp

    (Featured Photo by Isabela Kronemberger on Unsplash.) I’ve been doing a lot of personal work lately on learning to set boundaries and damn it’s hard. However, it’s also an incredibly necessary step towards not just being your own person, but having a healthy relationship with the world around you. The more I dive into boundary…

  • Permission to Grieve (in Gaming…)

    Permission to Grieve (in Gaming…)

    (Cover photo by Bret Lehne at Inside Hamlet 2017, Run 2.) This blog is a touch more personal than I usually write, but sometimes the personal can help you reflect on things professionally. I hope people take the lesson from this that I did, and my own reflections help others see their work and ability…

  • Playing a Doctor, Consent Negotiations and Medical Roleplay

    Playing a Doctor, Consent Negotiations and Medical Roleplay

    By Michelle Stagnitta (Editor’s Note: This guest post started as a comment in response to yesterday’s blog, but it was big enough and, I thought, important enough that it received it’s own post. While this seems to apply to more stats-based LARPing, there are healers, medics, and dangerous fight scenes in all ranges of LARP…

  • Negotiating for Drama: Consent Driven Narrative Roleplay

    Negotiating for Drama: Consent Driven Narrative Roleplay

    (Featured photo by Miguel Espino.) Nearly every event I play these days has some form of consent negotiations built into the system. Whether they are mandatory or a way for players to check in on the emotional safety of other players, the American LARP world at large is waking up to the fact that high…

  • The Debrief Toolbox

    The Debrief Toolbox

    Debriefing after an intense game is both difficult and essential for a variety of reasons. To those unfamiliar with the concept of a debrief, it is an exercise in separating a player’s mindset from the game world. Sometimes it discusses events of the game, favorite character moments, how to separate oneself as a player from…